How Traveling the World Helped Me Turn My Life Around

Travel has a way of teaching. In the past year, I’ve come to realize that traveling is what helped me to turn my life around.

Since I’ve been taking a little bit of time off from traveling, I’ve had a chance to sit still and to ponder a lot of the hows and whys of how I got to where I am today. It’s been a complicated, but fulfilling six years of travel, and looking back, I’m amazed at how far I’ve come.

The truth is that I was a nightmare of a child. Even well into my twenties, I had a knack for getting into trouble.

Between high school and college, I attended six different schools.

It’s not that I traveled a lot, or that my parents moved for work, it’s that I couldn’t stop getting kicked out of school. I was a smart kid (I ultimately graduated with cum laude distinction), but something about the rigidity of the schooling system just didn’t work for me.

I was different and the “system” couldn’t meet my needs. I was bored and desperate for something more, so I rebelled. Looking for ways to fulfill myself, all I did was end up getting into trouble.

Enjoying the views on the island of Santorini
Enjoying the views on the island of Santorini

I graduated from college (remarkably) in the middle of the recession, and short-term contracts were the only thing I could find. I worked the 9-5 lifestyle for just under a year before deciding that the professional workforce just wasn’t for me. So I flew to the other side of the world.

Looking back at it all, I don’t exactly have a track record of sticking around.

Six years later not much has changed. I’ve been to more than 30 countries and I still can’t even answer the question, “Where do you live?” (which, I’ll be honest, is kind of annoying). But I’ve learned to adapt, and I relish the alternative path that I ended up taking. It transformed me, and I now live a life that’s full of possibility.

A lot happened in those six years of travel. I didn’t just grow up, but I turned my life around. Whereas I was once just spinning my wheels, traveling the world gifted me an extraordinary opportunity to grow.

I Changed My Definition of “Normal”

The fact is, I’ve always been one to reject the status quo and I’ve always seen the world a little bit differently than the rest of my peers. I never quite fit in, and though I struggled with that for many years, I’ve not only become okay with it, but I’ve learned to truly love that about myself, and wholeheartedly embrace it.

From an early age, my “problem” was that my personality didn’t mesh with the idea of what normal life was supposed to look like. Society and other people told me that who I was was wrong.

But there is nothing wrong with me—my mother was good at making sure I knew that. I was just different, and hell, I still am. Nothing about this life I’m living fits the definition of normal.

In the past six years, since I started traveling, I’ve completely changed my definition of “normal.” Having seen the world, I recognize that there is really no such thing. I gave my myself the life I needed, rather than forcing myself to conform to the life that everybody else wanted me to have.

Manto de la Novia in Baños, Ecuador
Manto de la Novia in Baños, Ecuador

I Learned Lessons the Hard Way

Traveling the world became the platform for me to learn life lessons that I otherwise wouldn’t have been able to learn. When you continue to make the same mistakes time and time again, as I did, the lessons obviously aren’t sticking.

The things I learned while traveling were framed in a way that I could understand them. Alone on the other side of the world, life lessons become intensified. You need an “all in” mentality to deal with the hardships because without it, you are in every sense of the word, royally, monumentally, unquestionably fucked.

Your sense of survival is quite literally the only thing keeping you alive. You are left to your own devices, and if you fail to support or nurture yourself in the way your mind and body needs, there is nobody else there to do it for you. There is no backup plan—there is you in the world, and you learn that the world can be a very unforgiving place.

I Built a Small Business

When I left home at 24, I hardly understood credit and I definitely didn’t understand the value of a dollar. I was reckless. I spent $9,000 in two months backpacking the East coast of Australia like it was nothing. But then I was broke, and real life hit me like a bag of cinderblocks. I had to figure something out.

My mother offered to pay for my flight home, but despite being broke and alone, I declined. The way I saw it, I got myself into the mess, so it was up to me to get myself out. And I got to work.

That work fueled a fire in me. I was forced to find a way to make money in an unfamiliar environment—I had to figure out how to make something from nothing. I learned how easy it is to spend a dollar and how difficult it is to make one.

Since then, I’ve worked my way through multiple countries, and I’ve built an online business that lets me work from anywhere in the world. I partner with awesome travel companies, which means part of my job description includes staying in amazing hotels and doing cool stuff all over the world.

I would never have had the discipline to do this six years ago. In a way, I was forced into it, but I learned that, especially given my track record, working for anyone other than myself simply wasn’t an option.

Exploring Brussels, Belgium
Exploring Brussels, Belgium

I Ditched the Idea of Entitlement

As a white kid from the suburbs, I grew up with a sense of entitlement. I had a comfortable childhood that I took for granted. Solo travel put me in a place, mentally, where I had to come to terms with what I had, and most importantly, what I definitely wasn’t owed.

Nobody in the world owes me a thing, and coming to terms with that was probably the hardest lesson I had to learn. Whatever I got, I earned. I worked hard to survive (literally). Some days, I barely scraped by with a grilled cheese sandwich and a hard boiled egg for dinner.

But you know what? I earned that grilled cheese sandwich, and I’m proud of it.

I learned that, given who I am, I’m going to have to work harder than most to get the same things. And when you’re out there on your own, it doesn’t really matter what your neighbor has. It matters what you have, and it matters how comfortable you are with how much, or how little, that amounts to be.

It’s funny because most people think the past six years of my life were part of an extended vacation. To be honest, for a while, that’s what I thought it was, too (and it was, at times). But all-in-all, that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Traveling has taught me to grow up. At times it was more than difficult, but I’m thankful for each and every single lesson I learned along the way—I am the man I am today because of it.

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About the Author

Jeremy Scott Foster

Jeremy Scott Foster is an adventure-junkie, gear expert and travel photographer based in Southern California. Previously nomadic, he’s been to ~50 countries and loves spending time outdoors. You can usually find him on the trail, on the road, jumping from bridges or hustling on his laptop working to produce the best travel and outdoors content today.
  1. Travel is the greatest education anyone can have. Unfortunately, American society frets on the idea that someone wants to explore the world rather than jump straight into a job right after college to pursue the “American Dream.” It’s pretty safe to say that since the 2008-09 Recession that the American Dream is really whatever you want to make it to be at this point. Congrats on living yours!

    1. To be honest, I never knew that I wanted to travel. I had a sort of “eff it” moment where I decided to leave it all behind for an undetermined amount of time. A plan would have been helpful, but it just so happened to be the best learning experience of my life!

  2. Thank you for being so open about this, Jeremy! I have often wondered about a lot of the stuff you wrote about here. I guess I always pictured you as having had this perfect upbringing and corporate job and the ability to just make your life easily work anywhere in the world, but it’s comforting to know that it’s okay to struggle and that even the best of us do. Thanks for being an inspiration!

    1. Hey Katrina! To be fair, I’ve had quite a few strokes of good luck, but I’ve also had more than my fair share of difficult experiences. It took a lot of work and a lot of hardship to get here!

  3. This was one of the best things I have read for a long time. We live differently – we have more than the average number of children, we work from home, we home educate and we travel with 11 of our kids. We’re different and people don’t always ‘like’ different. But we’re okay with that. Our kids get to see and do stuff that others only dream about and they do and remember and live it all. If that’s what being different can do for you, then I’ll take it! Good luck with the rest of your travels.

    1. That’s amazing. And in 20 years, your kids are going to be unbelievably cultured and insightful people. Kudos to you and your family!

  4. It’s really not hard – I think the thought of it seems like it must be more difficult than it actually is in practice. We just pack up the minibus and go! A couple of the kids are looking forward to continuing their travels as independent adults. Looking forward to following more of your adventures.

  5. I grew up traveling, only later in life did I stop. It was hard, at first, to start up again, I’d lost my edge. Like once, years ago, hitching a ride with a semi truck loaded with frozen chickens, ten bucks to help unload gave me enough for my next couple of meals. Being broke teachs you the essentials of life, especially when on the road. You learn the difference between needs and wants.

    1. That is SUCH a huge differentiation, Ted, and one that I’ve written about a few times in the past. It’s so hard to nail down the difference between our needs and wants, but once you grasp that…well, that’s when the real journey begins.

  6. I agree with this. Traveling could help us improve our perspective on life. Living in different places is not easy, you always have to adjust. The best lesson I’ve learned is patience. It was easy to travel with patience and let you discover the things that you’ve never known before.

  7. Great post Jeremy…and it kinda ready like my own vita. Well some of it at least.

    I was above excellent at school which led to utter boredom and more or less not going (i didn’t drop out haha..teachers accepted that I didn’t need to go to school to get good marks at one point). Never did my homework etc.
    I was horrible at university and ended up studying for 10 years – always with the feeling of not fitting in.

    To a certain degree that is still the case – 50 countries later I still couldn’t tell you where exactly i belong. But maybe always searching is a valid answer as well.

    Lucky for me I accepted a 9-5 at a company that really is anything but 9-5. So the steady income flow is better than backing my backpag 😉 I only scrape for sandwhiches when I booked another trip and decided to upgrade to a way to expensive hotel *lol*

    1. You know, that’s a great point, Normal. Always searching may very well be a valid answer, too. I don’t think anybody, ever, at any age, has all of the answers they seek.

  8. One important thing that I’ve learned through traveling is that you gain perspective – actually many, diverse perspectives on life. People from China to Malawi have differing values, cultural and societal nuances, and outlook on how they perceive the world which only allows you to broaden your reception and understanding of it. But more importantly you are given the opportunity to share your perspectives of it and enrich/enlighten others to embrace that same world. There is so much mutual learning, and that there is the privilege of traveling! Been following your blog for a while now and I ❤️ it!!!!

    1. Thank you Chad! Means a lot! The education you get on the road is unparalleled. It changed my perspective forever.

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